Readers' letters - July 18

Parents, keep school prom nights within reason

Friday, 20th July 2018, 4:10 pm
Updated Friday, 20th July 2018, 4:12 pm
What do you think of school proms?

Well, it’s that time of year again when school proms abound. Just what are they all about?In my day (here I go again) you just left school and that was it. End of. There may have been a school leavers’ disco and uniforms being ceremoniously ripped up outside the school gates, but there were certainly no ball gowns, dapper suits or limousines in the equation.I heard about one girl’s parents shelling out a small fortune on their daughter’s prom night, then the girl got so smashed that she couldn’t even remember what had happened during her once-in-a- lifetime experience. What a waste.However, casting my mind back 40 years ago when I was of that age, would I have wanted to celebrate the end of my school days? You bet. Maybe not in that manner, though, and I still don’t see how such ‘over-the-top’ expense can be justified. The competitive element is bad news, too.Poorer kids must feel inferior when their parents are unable to afford such extravagances.Still, I’m not going to judge the kids or parents, if it’s all within reason. It is a rite of passage after all and if they want to celebrate it then so be it, I suppose.Horses for courses, so they say.CM Langanvia email

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